Personalities That Kill
One of my favorite topics to dive into is the darkness of humanity and thus the darkness of personalities. Harm to others surrounds us in a ridiculous amount of ways, which makes many people think about not only what others around them are capable of, but of what they, themselves are capable of. The popularity of true crime, dark genres, horror media, etc., provides evidence that people are interested in this topic. And of course, there’s always some recent event that can remind us of the darkness people have in them. There is SO much I could say about this topic (Listen to podcast episode 07 for much more information), but for now, I’m just going to address the question:
🚩What personalities are at the most risk to kill? 🚩
In my opinion, there are three main personality types that fall into the high risk category. I’m going to start with the “least” risky and end with the “most” risky, though please remember that all still are at high risk.
Narcissistic Personalities
Medium Risk to High Risk
The thing to remember about narcissism is that those who kill are quite likely to at least have high narcissistic traits, but not necessarily a narcissistic personality structure/disorder. Narcissistic personalities are all about image, ego, and the self, needing admiration and presenting with superiority, grandiosity, and charm (see Episode 04 podcast/blog for more info on narcissistic personalities). They value image so much that they can harm others in their pursuit and maintenance of it. However, there are some types of narcissistic personalities that are at higher risk for actually killing. While some narcissistic personalities are “more pure,” their focus on image is mostly about climbing the social ladder (e.g. Elitist subtype from Millon, p. 397). Now, they’ll react with anger, hostility, and even emotional/verbal abuse, but they’re not apt to physically kill. In contrast, there are some types who connect power with image, resulting in destruction. Millon’s “Unprincipled” subtype of narcissistic personality (Millon, p. 402) is at high risk for killing due to lack of remorse, lack of social conscience, vengefulness, and maliciousness. This subtype includes antisocial features, seen in their desire to humiliate and dominate others. Millon’s “Unprincipled” narcissist seems to be similar to the PDM-2’s mention of the “Malignant” narcissist (PDM-2, p. 46), whose narcissism is combined with sadistic aggression… 🚩Yikes!!
Paranoid Personalities
High Risk
Paranoid personalities are tricky. You never really fully know a paranoid personality since they show different faces to different people, which they do because they are suspicious, distrustful, and fearful of others and the world (see Episode 04 podcast/blog for more info on paranoid personalities). They view the world as threatening and against them, and in their defense against this, they tend to attack before being attacked. They can’t handle their own pain and so they transfer it onto others, often in a dramatic manner. They are at a very high risk for destroying others and then themselves, while projecting their own pain onto the masses - such as in a murder-suicide event. It wouldn’t surprise me if many mass murderers have paranoid personality structures. However, while unhealthy paranoid personalities are dangerous in general, some might be most dangerous to themselves (Millon’s “Insular” subtype, p. 975) or in other ways outside of murder (Millon’s “Fanatic” subtype, p. 983). In contrast, Millon’s “Querulously” subtype (Millon, p. 974) tend to be hostile and have delusions, often erotic ones that can result in behaviors like stalking, killing for their object of infatuation, or even killing their actual object of affection. More concerning is Millon’s “Malignant” subtype (Millon, p. 987) who tend to be previous sadistic types who have “fallen apart.” …🚩🚩No bueno!
Antisocial Personalities
High Risk
Antisocial personalities are boundary-crossing, as they tend to disregard and violate the rights of others, social norms, and the law. They are often deceptive, sneaky, and charming on the outside, but can also be impulsive, aggressive, and/or reckless (see Episode 04 podcast/blog for more info on antisocial personalities). In my opinion, antisocial personalities can be somewhat less dangerous than sadistic personalities, because there are some types who are more at risk for harm to themselves (Millon’s “Risk-Taking” subtype, p. 451) or just withdrawal from society (Millon’s “Nomadic” subtype, p. 455). In contrast, Millon’s “Reputation-Defending” subtype (Millon, p. 453) is high in narcissism as well, with a focus on looking tough and powerful with high status. They might have positions of power and rule with aggressive leadership, likely finding a place in extremist groups/cultures. They are very likely to engage in violent acts to “confirm” their own strength, viewing their victims/enemies as the wrongdoers, which they feel condones their violence.
Millon’s “Malevolent” subtype (Millon, p. 458) is perhaps one of the most dangerous personality types, especially as they are paired with paranoid or sadistic features. They tend to be revenge-driven, vindictive, hateful, and destructive. Millon’s bone-chilling description of them on p. 458 includes the statement, “Distrustful of others and anticipating betrayal and punishment, they have acquired a cold-blooded ruthlessness, an intense desire to gain revenge for the real or imagined mistreatment to which they were subjected in childhood.” …Even more scary, they can usually grasp the concept of remorse/guilt in their minds and even experience it emotionally, but they disregard it🚩🚩🚩. This type seems to be the one that comes to mind when we hear the word “psychopath,” and interestingly, it seems to correlate with the PDM-2’s “Aggressive” subtype of antisocial personality (PDM-2, p. 50).
Sadistic Personalities
High Risk 🚩🚩🚩🚩
This category of personality is a bit confusing. The DSM-5-TR does not include sadistic personality disorder, but Millon and the PDM-2 separate sadistic and antisocial personalities. The overall core of sadistic personalities is their enjoyment of inflicting pain on others (see Episode 05 podcast/blog on Millon’s types or Episode 06 podcast/blog on Psychodynamic types for more info on sadistic personalities). Some sadistic personalities feel like they are entitled to control or punish others, often taking positions of power in militaries, schools, or legal systems, as they also have some compulsive traits. Their power leads to feelings of arrogance and superiority, resulting in a tendency to view their “victims” as inferior and maybe not even human - but all this is wrapped up in their “righteous” exterior that they portray as moral (Millon’s “Enforcing” subtype, p. 637). Some sadists are actually very fearful and use violence to disguise their fear, moving against it through counterphobic action. They can be quite cruel and often find themselves in groups with a shared victim, like a hate group - somewhere to put their anger about their own weakness (Millon’s “Spineless” subtype, p. 637). Some might possibly kill those closest to them in an uncontrollable and unpredictable rage that tends to not be premeditated but impulsive. (Millon’s “Explosive” subtype, p. 641).
The one I find the most severely brutal and horrifying is Millon’s “Tyrannical” subtype (Millon, p. 642), which can have paranoid and/or negativistic features. They enjoy destroying, abusing, assaulting, and terrorizing. They are the devious, composed predators who seek out weak prey, and when they attack, they do so with no remorse, unable to stop until their rage is exhausted. Millon states, “What is also especially distinctive is the desire and willingness of these sadists to go out of their way to be unmerciful and inhumane in their violence” (Millon, p. 645), adequately describing them as being “distressingly ‘evil’” (Millon, p. 642).
Hopefully, this helps you better understand your true crime shows and villains in the media you consume. I wouldn’t wish a relationship with these risky types on anyone! It gives a bit of a new meaning to the concept of red flag 🚩. Beware and be well!
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Doc Fish
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
I am a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in personality, attachment, and psychodynamic treatment.