Ep 19: Is Narcissism Good? The Surprising Truth About Self-Importance

In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) delve into the complexities of narcissism, exploring its cultural labeling, the distinction between pathological and trait narcissism, and its development from infancy. We discuss the importance of understanding narcissism in contemporary society, the confusion surrounding its definition, and how it manifests in all personality pathology and personality disorders. The conversation emphasizes the need for clarity in labeling narcissistic behaviors, the balance between healthy and pathological narcissism, and the impact of parenting styles on narcissistic traits. Our discussion highlights the importance of understanding narcissism as a spectrum and the need for realistic self-reflection.

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to Narcissism and Misuse of the Term
• 03:31 What is Narcissism?
• 10:38 Narcissism in Childhood Development
• 16:13 Pathological Narcissism
• 24:12 The Role of Parenting in Narcissistic Development
• 25:22 The Complexity and Variability of Narcissism